FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Q. Does it hurt the first time somebody has sex?

A. Sex should not be painful for anyone. The first time can be a daunting new experience and may be slightly uncomfortable for some people at first. Take your time and communicate with your partner throughout to ensure the best possible experience for both of you.

Q. What is the average penis size?

A. The average penis size is approximately 3 inches when flaccid (not erect), although everyone is different and should not compare themselves to others. A penis can be much the same size when flaccid and erect or there may be a big difference between the penis when it is flaccid or erect. Both are perfectly normal.

Q. What is a yeast infection (thrush)?

A. Anyone can get a yeast infection, even if they are not sexually active. It mostly affects girls, women and people assigned female at birth. A yeast infection causes a PH imbalance in the vagina, producing a heavy discharge and irritation. It is easily treated with over the counter products from the pharmacy. Thrush is not an STI, but can be transferred between partners during sexual contact. Using non-perfumed products and wearing cotton underwear can help prevent a yeast infection from occurring.

Q. Can flavoured condoms be used for penetrative sex?

A. No – flavoured condoms have chemicals and sugars present in the flavouring. This can affect the pH balance in the vagina and lead to yeast infections or irritation. Flavoured condoms should only be used for oral sex.

Q. Is it safer to use two condoms?

A. Never use two condoms together as this will cause friction and may result in the condoms ripping or tearing.

Q. Is it possible for someone to get pregnant when on their period?

A. Yes, it is possible for someone to get pregnant during their period as a person may ovulate (release an egg) more than once a month. Even though there is a more fertile time of the month (11-16 days into a menstrual cycle), there is never a 100% ‘safe’ time of the month.

Q. Is vaginal and/or clitoral orgasm always achievable?

A. Orgasms are different for everyone - some people will not have the same type and frequency of orgasms as other people. People will get pleasure (and/or orgasm) from stimulation of different parts of their body and genitals. Some studies have shown that within cisgender heterosexual couples, men reach orgasm much more often than women. Researchers do not know for certain why this is the case, but some blame cultural and societal perspectives and a lack of education regarding pleasure. This is why it is so important to be comfortable and understanding of your own body, desires and boundaries, and to be relaxed with whoever you are sharing sexual experiences with.

Q. If someone swallows sperm can they get pregnant?

A. No - you cannot get pregnant from swallowing sperm. Sperm has to enter the vagina for pregnancy to occur. However there is a risk of STI infection.